Every year the Canadian Council for International Co-operation hosts a discussion forum and this year it was on the Paris Declaration and aid effectiveness.  There are some interesting notes on equitable North/South CSO relations at http://ccic.ca/e/docs/002_aid_2008-02_roundtable_6.pdf   As well Brian Tomlinson of the Canadian Council for International Co-operation delivered a speech a few month ago entitled “North / South CSO relations – A Northern Perspective” at http://ccic.ca/e/docs/002_aid_2007-08_harnosand_speech.pdf